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Conference, Connections & Life Changing Moments

 


There is no greater way to express the life changing moments that occur for members at our Family Conference, than to invite you into one of those very moments. Board member and FIRST advocate Tracie Pretak has had gained enormous benefit from attending the conference, but there is one special moment she’d like to share, that stands out a bit more than the rest.

Not sure if you should attend the conference? Consider this:Twenty-six years ago, I had a two-year old daughter with Lamellar Ichthyosis (LI) and we attended our first FIRST conference and our lives would never be the same. Meeting others who understood, who’d gone through what we were going through, and grew up to be successful and happy was overwhelming!

Jim & Bailey, FIRST Family Conference 2012

Jim & Bailey, FIRST Family Conference 2012

One man I met, Jim, totally changed my thoughts on how to raise Bailey. You see, Jim, who also has LI, told me that he ran cross-country in high school. That blew my mind…because with LI, Jim can quickly overheat.  He said his parents let him try it and found a safe way for him to do it (people would stand along the route and throw buckets of water on him!). He said they tried to give him as normal a life as possible. And so…I did that with Bailey. And when she wanted to dance, on a hot stage under hot lights, I thought of Jim…and I said yes! We took precautions and trained the dance teacher and stage crew on how to prevent and treat heat stroke.

Bailey not only excelled at dancing, she continues to grace the stage at our annual recital. Plus she now is teaching a new generation of little dancers. I’m not sure any of this would have happened, if we hadn’t met Jim.

Fast forward to last year’s conference. We had not been to one in awhile, but decided to go and encourage other families, kids, and teens affected with ichthyosis. On the first day, we walked into the meeting room and who did we see? Jim! Unbelievable! We hadn’t seen him in 24 years! It was so amazing for Bailey to meet the man that “let her dance!” I felt like everything came full circle in that moment.

We were there to offer to others what he gave to us…HOPE. We learned that Jim has actually run a marathon! What an inspiration! It was so amazing to watch Bailey throughout the conference that weekend. I have never seen her so self-assured, so confident. It was worth every penny spent to see her smile; to see her be so open; to see her inspiring the kids and teens and parents and grandparents!   It was such an amazing weekend of connecting that I don’t think we will ever miss another one.

Come to Indiana…we want to meet YOU!!! – Tracie

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